I used to love to go to church. To "recharge my batteries" after a long week of stress and life. I love to sing (even though I am not a good singer) the old songs and new ones. To pray. Together.
But its football season. Our current pastor is a huge football fan. He loves the Packers and the Badgers and the local high school team. Which would not be a bad team if he were not
obsessed with football. He has us praying for a win. Praying for each player. Sure, I like to see the kids do well, but to hear the old pastor rant you would think every kid on the other team is a heathen. What a jerk.
Last year he had a whole sermon about one kid. A lineman. "He is my hero" My oldest daughter told me this kid comes to school drunk, throws chairs when he doesn't get his way. He is 17. Not my hero, and thankfully not my kids hero either. I wish our pastor could see past sports.
It got harder and harder to sit through church every Sunday, and make my kids sit through it too. So we dont.
My kids. Honor students. Play in the band. My son is out for Cross Country (pastor has never been to a meet), he is not the #1 runner. But he tries. And he loves it. He loves to run, hates the competition, likes the girls on the team, likes the girls on the other team......
My oldest is out for forenscis. Went all the way to state. She did great on her SATs. And spends her evenings working at the local nursing home.
We are very proud of our kids. But the kids
not on the football team never get mentioned. What about the kids like that? The ones that do well in school? The kids that go to school everyday and try but dont get A's. Or the kid that do go out for sports and sit on the bench? The kids that go on mission trips and get up at 5 am to do the Easter Sunrise service, because he "doesnt like getting up so early"
So our pastor is the most narrow-minded hypocrite I ever knew. He has been told by the pastor parrish committee countless times. But he gets defensive and angry, threatens to leave. Oh please. Let him go! Before he scares everyone alway from church.
Basketball season is just as bad. He follows the boys team only. He doesnt like girls sports.
I already told my husband, if I die and he is still pastor. I dont want him doing my funeral. I need to put that in writing......